Staying safe
This page includes information on domestic abuse which some people may find upsetting. You can get support from the services listed at the end of the page.
What is domestic abuse?
Domestic abuse can happen to anyone. It is never your fault.
Domestic abuse can happen in any relationship, and it can happen to women, men, partners, carers or family members.
Abuse is not always physical. It can also be:
- emotional
- verbal
- sexual
- psychological
- financial
- online or digital
- controlling or coercive behaviour
How domestic abuse affects babies, children and teens
Domestic abuse puts babies, children and young people of any age at risk of emotional harm, stress, learning difficulties and developmental delays, behaviour problems, and long-term impacts on their wellbeing.
If you think domestic abuse might be happening to you, you can make a safety plan and reach out to the support services at the end of this page.
Impact of domestic Abuse During pregnancy
Domestic abuse can sometimes get worse during pregnancy. It can harm both you and your unborn baby by:
- increasing the risk of miscarriage
- your baby being born early
- your baby being born with a low birth weight
- stress affecting your baby’s development in the womb
Impact of domestic abuse at any age
Babies, children and young people can be affected by domestic abuse at any age, even if they do not see the abuse directly. Hearing shouting, seeing someone upset, or feeling scared at home can all have an impact.
Domestic abuse can affect a child’s:
- emotional and mental health
- brain development and learning
- physical health
- social skills and relationships
- behaviour
Leeds Children’s Safeguarding Partnership
Find more information about:
- what domestic abuse is
- how it affects children and young people
- the difference between normal arguments and abuse
Visit the Leeds Children’s Safeguarding Partnership website
How domestic abuse affects you
Domestic abuse can affect your mental and physical health. You may feel:
- anxious or low
- scared or on edge
- confused about what is happening
- worried about money, control or safety
- isolated from family and friends
You do not have to wait for an emergency.
You deserve to feel safe.
If you think domestic abuse might be happening to you, you can make a safety plan and reach out to the support services at the end of this page.
Getting help if you’re worried
If you think domestic abuse might be happening to you, you can make a safety plan and reach out to the support services below
Emergency help
If you or your children are in immediate danger, call 999
If you cannot speak, press 55 when prompted. This lets the operator know you need help
