Mental wellbeing
Welcome to session 3 of our 7-week virtual programme and we’ll be exploring mental wellbeing.. Please make sure you have your workbook to hand.
We’ll keep the session as interactive as possible, so if you have any comments or questions throughout the presentation, please just raise your hand.
Session overview
- What is it?
- How can we manage it?
- Pain and Food
- How to safely increase activity with persistent pain
- Resources
Transcript
This week we will cover the topic of pain, including what it is, how we can manage in, the role of diet in pain, activity and pain, and lastly signpost you towards some videos and websites for more information.
We don’t advise on pain medication, and advise you always speak to your GP in the first instance. Your GP can help if your unsure if there is a role for medication for your type of pain, if your on pain medication and not sure if its working, or you feel you can decrease your current pain medication.
Accepting and adjusting to the changes that a health condition brings is a process.
The process is different for everyone: There is no right or wrong length of time.
Changes can involve feelings of loss, changes to roles, lack of structure, family, employment and financial changes amongst others.
Accessing support and using recommended techniques for both your physical and emotional wellbeing can help you with this process.
Aim to use a compassionate self-help approach whilst allowing yourself time to adjust to the changes in your life.
Linking Physical Health and Mental Wellbeing
Linking Physical Health and Mental Wellbeing
A clear distinction is sometimes made between physical health and mental health. However, we know there is a link between physical health, physiological wellbeing and social wellbeing. Health conditions are experienced with a combination of physical symptoms, physiological factors and social factors.
Transcript
- This model acknowledges that a health condition involves different areas of your life.
- The physical part of the model refers to your physical symptoms.
- The psychological part refers to a person’s thoughts, emotions, coping skills and how their health condition affects their mental wellbeing and self esteem.
- The social part refers to circumstances maybe with family, friends, peers and other factors including employment or finances.
- Your experience of your health condition always involves all these three parts.
- This model explains why working with all these three connected areas is important for your overall wellbeing.
Common Psychological Challenges
Common Psychological Challenges
- Low/mood depression
- Overwhelmed
- Shock/disbelief
- Avoiding people/places/things
- Distressing thoughts/worries
- Self-perception change
- Panic/anxiety attacks
- Anxious/fearful uncertain
- Frustration/irritability
- Lonely/isolated misunderstood
Transcript
The physical symptoms of different health conditions can vary. The psychological challenges that people face can be more similar.
Experiencing low mood and anxiety can be caused by many factors including:
- Experiencing challenging physical symptoms.
- Feeling lonely isolated or misunderstood.
- Feeling embarrassed.
- Experiencing distressing thoughts.
- Excessive worrying, leading to anxiety attacks.
- Avoidance of safe & beneficial activities.
- Feeling irritable and frustrated and snappy with others.
- Experiencing changes to self-perception or feeling shocked at the changes that living with your health condition brings.
Experiencing any of these can make managing your health condition more difficult.
Common psychological changes
Common psychological changes
- Shock/Disbelief
- Low Mood
- Lonely/Isolated
- Distressing Thoughts/Worries
- Overwhelmed
- Self-Perception Change
- Anxiety
- Avoiding others/safe activities
- Frustration
- Irritability
Common Additional Stressors
Common Additional Stressors
- Changes to parenting or relationships
- Loss of daily routine/structure
- Financial stress/benefit worries
- Changes to hobbies and activities
- Housing/environment
- Employment changes
- Managing Appointments
- Communicating Needs
Transcript
These are some examples of additional stressors that people can experience from living with health conditions.
Experiencing changes when interacting with family and friends.
Not being able to undertake previous hobbies or activities such as playing football, running, or doing other activities with their children.
Loss of routine & structure in your day can contribute to feeling aimless or a lack of positive reinforcement.
Financial worries or stress applying for benefits.
Moving homes and experiencing changes to employment are also factors that contribute to people’s distress and difficulties.
Vicious Cycle
Vicious Cycle
Transcript
ØThis vicious cycle demonstrates that health conditions bring changes to the way people think, feel and what they do.
ØEveryone can have distressing thoughts and feelings from time to time.
ØUnfortunately, when a health condition happens, people’s distressing thoughts, feelings and behaviours can change and then become habitual.
ØA vicious cycle of feeling low, distressed or anxious can then form.
ØOur thoughts, emotions and behaviours are all linked, they also contribute to physiological symptoms with changes to our sleep, appetite, lethargic, palpitations, digestive symptoms etc. These physiological symptoms then impact your health condition symptoms.
ØThis vicious cycle highlights the integrated nature of your mental wellbeing and physical health.
ØIt highlights the benefits of managing your mental wellbeing to help support you in living with your health condition
Improve your mood with food and drink
Improve your mood with food and drink
- Food and drink will help improve your mood as well as your physical health
- Eating regularly with slow-release carbohydrates
- Low GI foods (as discussed in week 1)
- A balanced diet including protein and 5 portions of fruit and veg a day
- Eatwell guide (as discussed in week 1
- The right fats
- Mediterranean style of eating (as discussed in week 2)
- Staying well hydrated
- Looking after your gut health
Understanding and working with the Gut-Brain axis
Understanding and working with the Gut-Brain axis
Looking after your gut health:
Reduce caffeine and alcohol intake
Increase fluid, avoid fizzy drinks
Chew food well and sit up straight when eating. Avoid lying down or being “slumped” in a comfy chair after you’ve eaten
Practice mindful eating
www.bda.uk.com/resource/mindful-eating.html
Recognize the difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger
For more information on the relationship between food and mood go to:
https://www.bda.uk.com/resource/food-facts-food-and-mood.html
Feelings of shame, embarrassment and guilt
Feelings of shame, embarrassment and guilt
Needing to use a walking aid/needing to pace
Appearing breathless/fatigued with others
Struggling to meet the demands of your previous/current roles
Changes in your self-perception
All these can trigger distressing feelings such as shame, embarrassment & guilt
Misunderstandings and misconceptions from others contribute to social anxieties
Usual levels of confidence and resilience are often affected: Consider using:
1: Peer support: 2: Write your feelings down, use bullet points:
3: Draw your feelings: Use angry faces/sad faces/happy faces etc.
Offloading your feelings helps manage emotional & cognitive fatigue
The role of resilience in health and wellbeing
The role of resilience in health and wellbeing
Resilience is not a static line: It’s rather like a rubber band that contracts and stretches as needed
Managing health conditions takes resilience
Unfortunately, over time, the day-to-day challenges can also affect resilience
Using support and techniques can help to strengthen resilience
You will have your own examples of resilience
Consider the resilience, strengths and skills you already have or have used previously
Other examples might be:
Using practical strategies/problem solving approaches
Improving any social isolation
Applying self-compassion on more challenging days
Using goals to improve mood
Using goals to improve mood
- Micro goals are important to use with health conditions
- Goals can be described as having a plan/focus/aim
- Make a list of small goals
- Plan to do something that gives positive reinforcement
- Goals can be set for the next hour, afternoon, day, week or month
- Break each goal down into tiny micro steps
- Small goals help with feelings of achievement & motivation
- They help you feel more in charge of your daily lives
- Goals create structure, routine & purpose
Transcript
- For people living with health condition’s goal setting is an important technique.
- Setting the smallest of goals can provide a sense of achievement, momentum and boost your confidence.
- Small goals can help you feel more in control of your day.
- Goals can be described in many ways.
- Having an Aim: A Plan: A Target: A Focus:
- Setting realistic goals is needed. Setting unrealistic goals contributes to feeling overwhelmed and feeling demoralised.
- Start with the smallest micro goals and record how you feel before and after doing your goal.
Goals planning
Goals planning
| Goal/Aim/Focus | Benefits of Goal | What Will I Do
When/How |
| Get up by 11:30am
Make a cuppa Listen to my favourite radio show at noon |
Benefits mood:
Provides routine Enjoy listening to speakers on show |
Set a final alarm for 11 am
Remind myself of benefits of my goal Get next day’s clothes ready the evening before |
| Have a 10 minute phone conversation with my sister every week | Won’t feel guilty avoiding her calls
Enjoyed speaking with her previously |
Set a regular 10-15-minute weekly time to chat
Think of things to talk about beforehand Take it in turns to call each other |
| Text one friend weekly and aim to meet up in one month | Messaging will help me to build up to meeting them
It will gradually help improve my confidence |
Have a set day/time to message.
Put it in my calendar Give it a fair try to see if it helps |
| Do my active rest for 45 minutes every day | Helps me recharge emotional and physical energy battery
Provides structure & routine |
Think about what active rest activity I will do
Communicate to my family what I’m doing and why Ask not to be disturbed |
Transcript
- Remember small micro goals are better than large goals.
- State your goal or your aim clearly and precisely.
- What are you going to do & when will you do this.
- Consider the benefits to doing your goal, think about the advantages and the positive reinforcement you will receive from completing your goal.
- Make a list of exactly what you will do, when you will do it, how you will do it.
- This will help turn your goal into becoming a reality.
- Give your goal a fair try: If you have been avoiding people or safe, beneficial activities it can be hard reaching out or doing things at first.
- This is why small steps are crucial.
Supportive Self-Talk
Supportive Self-Talk
Increased feelings of anxiety and low mood can be debilitating and make managing your health condition more difficult
Distressing feelings can fluctuate much like the symptoms of health conditions
Try to keep your ‘self-talk’ supportive and compassionate especially when you have difficult days
Many people benefit from either using self-help strategies or accessing further support
We have options available in our service to help you manage and improve your mental wellbeing
Please speak to your clinician for advice
Useful Self-Help Website
Useful Self-Help Website
Visit www.mindwell-leeds.org.uk for useful self-help information & strategies for common problems such as:
- Anxiety & Worry
- Feeling Low & Depressed
- Stress & Feeling Pressure
- Panic & Panic Attacks
- Sleeping Problems
- Anger: (Anger can be a reaction to, and distraction from, other feelings such as guilt, sadness, powerlessness, anxiety and isolation. Mindwell Leeds has further information on anger and ways to cope)
Supportive listening services
Supportive listening services
Samaritans is always open to talk about whatever you’re going through. Open 24/7. Call 116 123 (free phone)
West Yorkshire 24-hour mental health helpline offers support, advice and information for anyone in Leeds. Open 24/7. Call 0800 183 0558 (free phone)
Connect helpline is a survivor-led service offering emotional support to people in Leeds. Open every night 6pm to 2am. Call 0808 800 1212 (free phone)
Connect BSL helpline is on Mondays at 7pm to 11pm, facetime/skype/glide with BSL trained staff. Call 07500 870 987
Shout text service struggling to cope? Text SHOUT to 85258 (free) any time 24/7 for support Messages are anonymous and won’t appear on your phone bill
Contact 111- option 2 – to speak with the mental health team for urgent help in a crisis